The Liar’s Den: Let’s Talk CHEATING

The event I attended on January 21, 2017 located at La Madeleine in Sandy Springs, Georgia, “The Liar’s Den: Let’s Chat,” was something much-needed not just for myself as a woman, but women in general in order to bridge together this invisible gap so commonly placed between us. This was set as a preview of the book, which would shed some light together as a group on questions we all at some point seemed to wonder when it came to men. No, this wasn’t a male’bashing event or a get-together to talk about their flaws, but rather gain some form of group therapy that could eventually help us within our own relationships whether as a partner or even with young sons.


Mr. Ass Licker


A Tenderoni in a room full of Retired Men!

     So after I had my meeting with my business partner Jae, I decided to visit this lounge I typically go to on Saturdays.  Already being in the area, I figured why not, seeing how I had nothing else on my agenda plus it had been about a month since I last went.  I remember my hair stylist informing me that on Fridays, there was an open buffet with shrimp, crab legs, etc.  Even though I had no intention of eating from the buffet, I thought it would be convenient to just go and see what it was all about. (more…)

Random Questions to Mr. Unknown

There are always times when you want to ask a guy a question from a male’s perspective.  It could simply be to gain understanding of how the situation is viewed or just to pick their brains.  


So I reached out to Mr. Unknown and decided to ask him some questions that I know women always want to know.  Sit back and enjoy…oh and, subscribe!! (more…)

Don’t believe the hype!

So you have haters


Okay so this may ruffle a few feathers but hey…why not?  I’ve seen it time and time again where people will go on to say the infamous “If you got haters, that means you’re doing something right.”  Uh..what if they don’t have anything else to do but find ways to start shit?  You can be doing nothing at all and still have haters.  So what exactly was it that you were doing right?  This is what always made me think, “who are your haters, exactly?”  And then, “why are you focusing or even giving someone who doesn’t like what you have to say, any of your energy?”

I sometimes believe people make that stuff up just for the likes and drama.  Have you ever noticed that?  The minute some shit pop off online, people go flocking over to that status with their comments.  I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again – people only support the drama and not any positive stuff going on or being said.  So I got something for that ass.  Starting tomorrow, I’m going to host my own “Tell’em Why You Mad Tuesdays!”  I will go in on the fckery and BS that has happened on this particular day and if you got something you want to throw in there, feel free to fill out this here form and submit!

I’ll be sure to keep it between you and me if that’s cool with you.  But for real, don’t give people who are not helping you grind and advance, none of your energy!  Let them drain it out of the next person but you’re too good for all of that.




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Love: Return To Sender

How can you love someone else or even expect others to love you if you don’t love yourself?

     I remember at one point, telling someone you love them to the point you’d die for them was the thing.  Those days have come and gone.  If you love me that much, you can’t possibly love yourself.  I may sound a little cold but hear me out.

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#SweetSpotNation: Atlanta

Sexy. Hot. Sensual. LusciousSeductive

#SweetSpotNation on Saturday November 14, 2015

This was the first time that I had ever attended this event and to be honest with you, after researching online, promotional videos and photos – I had an idea of what to expect but you know what they say, “expect the unexpected.” (more…)


stop-domestic-violence-copy-940x513Defined by Merriam-Webster Dictionary:

“noun \ə-ˈbyüs\

Definition of ABUSE

1:  a corrupt practice or custom
2:  improper or excessive use or treatment :  misuse <drug abuse>
3  obsolete :  a deceitful act :  deception
4:  language that condemns or vilifies usually unjustly, intemperately, and angrily
5:  physical maltreatment”

So when do you say enough is enough?  At what point in life do you decide that being taken for granted has run its last lap and you are ready to reclaim ownership?  Abuse comes in many different ways.